Robert A. Cook, former president of King’s College in New York, recounted his experiences in the early years of his ministry.
He often received a lot of criticism, and so he sought advice from a friend, the Reverend Harry A. Ironside.
Cook poured his whole heart out on his friend and asked what he should do in the face of the harsh criticism that attacked him.
Ironside responded, “Robert, if your criticism is true, accept it generously! But if it’s not true, forget it!”
We may not be able to escape the hurtful ridicule that slides quickly from people who don’t like us. However, when an attack through words is thrown at us, it is good to analyze it. If it is not true, leave it alone. Like the water circle behind a swimming duck, it will gradually disappear. If so, take the necessary steps to remedy the situation.
Are you facing criticism? Or accusations? If all of that is true, fix yourself. But if none of that is true, forget it. That’s how to deal with criticism. Don’t be afraid of criticism if you’re right, and don’t underestimate criticism if you’re wrong.
