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Always Take Your Time To Understand Things Better

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A father and his daughter were playing in the park. His young daughter spotted an apple vendor. She asked her father to buy her an apple. The father didn’t bring much money with him. But it was enough to purchase two apples. So he bought two apples and gave them to his daughter.

His daughter held one apple in each hand,then the father asked her if she could share one apple with him. Upon hearing this,his daughter quickly took a bite from one apple and before her father could speak,she also took a bite from the second apple.

The father was surprised. He wondered what mistake he had mad in raising his daughter that she acted in such a greedy way. His mind was lost in thoughts,thinking that perhaps he was just thinking too much.

His daughter was too young to understand sharing and giving. A smile had disappeared from his face. 

Suddenly,his daughter with an apple in one hand said,”Father,have this one. This one is much juicer and sweeter. Her father was speechless. He felt bad about reaching a judgment so quickly about a small child. But his smile came back. Now knowing why his daughter quickly took a bite from each apple.

So,moral of the story is,don’t judge anything too quickly or reach a conclusion. Always take the time to understand thing better.

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