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Why Redemption and Self-help are one and the same

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Can you save yourself, or do you need to be saved spirituality in order to get help?

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Oxford languages on Goggle describes redemption as “the action of saving or being saved from sin, error, or evil.”

Is God the only one who can save me?

Do you want to be saved from the battles you’re facing? And do you feel trapped thinking the only way you can find help is by joining some spiritual lifestyle which deems what you like doing as bad? If I become spiritual do I lose my identity? Because losing my identity doesn’t sound fair, Right?

A lot of people need help. They look for it and they have researched a lot of resources where they can find help. When you do your research, people tend to weigh the pros and cons. They ask themselves, If I choose to find help this way what will I have to give up in order to be saved? A person will realize that help is available, but it’s the giving up something part which stops them.

A lot of people know that they need help when it comes to making significant lifestyle changes or overcoming addiction. It’s a challenging and daunting journey, especially when you’ve been entrenched in these habits for a long time. Sacrificing a familiar lifestyle or breaking free from addiction can feel like an overwhelming task. Oftentimes, individuals find themselves holding onto the familiar aspects – the good part (10%) – while battling with the negative impacts – the bad part (90%) – simply because it’s what they are accustomed to. Breaking free from this cycle can be incredibly difficult, and it often requires support, guidance, and a strong sense of determination.

The benefits of redemption

Do you want to achieve a greater level of happiness in your life, reaching a staggering 90% instead of settling for a mere 10%? If so, it may require making the difficult choice of sacrificing the fleeting satisfaction that comes with certain addictive behaviors. By breaking free from these habits, you can effectively reverse the negative impact they have on your overall well-being, allowing you to embrace a significantly higher level of contentment. It’s essential to distance yourself from these detrimental activities and commit to abstaining from them entirely. Remember, the true path to self-improvement often begins with a spiritual journey. Engaging in introspection and delving into your inner being can reveal that you are not alone, finding guidance and strength from within yourself.

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Why redemption is Self-help

There’s a spirit inside of you which works because of God. It lies idle — functioning — but idle waiting for the day you notice it. When you realize that it’s there, it makes itself available to you, and it provides four essential elements:

1. Hope,
2. Relief,
3. Gratitude,
4. Concrete feelings which develop your emotional intelligence.

If you’re not ready to believe in God, it’s okay. Though when you know that you have a spirit inside of you, from God, which is willing to help, it can provide a sense of comfort and guidance that extends beyond the self. This understanding can shift the way you perceive challenges and choices in life, making the act of choosing to give up the (90%) bad you’re doing an option guided by a deeper connection. It won’t feel like a sacrifice anymore because the pros outweigh the cons, and the positive impact on your well-being becomes more evident.

Self-help is deeply intertwined with spiritual awareness, as it allows your inner spirit, from God, to illuminate the path towards personal growth and fulfillment. This inner spirit from God is available within you 24/7, a constant source of support, clarity, and resilience. You don’t need to log a call, book an appointment, or pay any money to get help from your spirit. The divine presence of God is free and readily accessible, offering the best guidance and assistance for your everyday challenges and aspirations.

We all need help. Growth is a lifelong practice. You need to sacrifice something in order to get something. God says give (confess) all of your sins to Him… openthebible.org states:

Two Important Truths About Confession

• You can confess your sins directly to God. You do not need to confess to a pastor, priest, or spiritual leader to be forgiven. …

• James tells us to confess our sins to one another. Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.

Confessing to God is the first step. You can do it by yourself; wherever you are, in whatever situation you’re going through. God listens and He doesn’t judge. Then go to a place where you can find help like a church or institution which helps the type of issue or pain you’re going through.

Conclusion

Most of our problems have solutions. Redemption is Self-help. They’re both connected and it’s an awesome place to be in when you use both of them to live your life. P.S. Letting go of (10%) fun to have (90%) of joy is a no-brainier to me

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  • Clive Ngwenya

    Clive Ngwenya is a visionary advocate for holistic well-being, dedicated to empowering individuals to enhance their physical, mental, and emotional health. As the founder of this transformative website, Clive’s mission is to provide accessible resources and support for people on their journey towards improved well-being.

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