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Emotional Intelligence Developer Tool Updates: A Calmer, Clearer Experience
Free Tools What’s new We’ve been giving our free wellbeing tools a full overhaul, one tool at a time, so they feel calmer, clearer and easier to use. Updated tools – Values Quiz: fully rebuilt with the new experience What’s improved across the updated tools – Step-by-step flow: one question or section at a time,…
RJ Mitte: Why pain shouldn’t be silent but loud
RJ Mitte on Why We Need to Make Our Pain Loud RJ Mitte died on October 12, 2026, at age 34. His reps confirmed his death by suicide in Texas. Wikipedia The clever people will say why didn’t he say anything before this happened? How can it happen to him? Why didn’t people see it?…
The forgotten benefits of the World Wide Web vs the social media revolution
The fascinating tension of the open, decentralized “old web” versus the algorithmic, closed ecosystems of modern social media. In the organic World Wide Web era of the (www. Emotional intelligence developer dot com) you find websites like mine, emotionalintelligencedeveloper.com that helps people “see with their minds, what other people cannot see with their eyes.” The…
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The ultimate con? Constantly saying “I’m okay”
Why telling people that you’re okay is a reflex that you can undo Recently, I spoke to a close friend of mine. We last spoke about 4 months ago, and between that time, life happened. Ups and downs, and all kinds of… ‘You know what!’ happened. He messaged me in the morning at 6h25am, and…
How Anxiety Affects Your Heart and Mind
What came first? The egg or the chicken? God or evolution? This post came about because of a message my sister sent on the family WhatsApp group. A Bible verse “Proverbs 12:25 NKJV [25] Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, But a good word makes it glad.” Therefore, knowing this should ideally make…
Why Emotional Dysregulation Isn’t Being Broken.
I am rewiring my nervous system to become the man I want to be. By Matthew F. Stevens An abnormal reaction to an abnormal situation is normal behavior. – Viktor Frankl I love this quote because it helped me understand myself on a level that escaped me for many years prior to reading it. Over…
